---Proverbs 31:10 "Who can find a virtuous woman? For her price is far above rubies."

Saturday, October 4, 2014

The woman of value!

Understanding your worth! 
worth: equivalent in value to the sum or item specified.

Proverbs 31:10 Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.

Are you a virtuous woman? Are you working on becoming a virtuous woman? I believe if you want to become a virtuous woman it all starts with understanding your worth! See a virtuous woman is worth far above rubies. Yet if you don't value yourself above rubies then you don't understand what it means to be a virtuous woman. Yes we need money to survive and live life but im hear to inform you that your worth more than every dollar in this world. Until you believe that you will never understand the value of a virtuous woman.Let me say it again until you GRASP the fact that your value you will never understand the value of a virtuous woman. You are to gain esteem about yourself. Not in a cocky manner but in a confident manner. I am worth something. When you look in the mirror do you up lift yourself or put yourself down? I am beautiful. When people treat your bad? Do you tell yourself I deserve better I can be loved. I wont let anyone treat me any kind of way. I will be good to myself. Set up boundaries. Do things to show myself that i love myself first because its hard to love others when you can barely love yourself. Learn to become healthy mentally, physically, spiritually, and emotionally for my family or future family. So that they can see you as this wonderful virtuous woman! When something has value you take care of it. Do you take care of yourself the way you should.  Do you understand your worth? 


Others See how much you value you!


Ruth 3:11 And now, my daughter, fear not; I will do to thee all that thou requirest: for all the city of my people doth know that thou art a virtuous woman.


When you know your value others will know as well. When you don't value yourself people treat you any kind of way believing that they can treat you any kind of way. Yet when you treat yourself good when you value yourself it shows! You take care of yourself. Not just on the outside but on the inside. Todays society shows that looking good is all you need. Yet there is more to use woman then just outside. And an ugly inside can make an ugly outside and i dont care how expensive your clothes are how much you paid for your weave, i dont care if you get your nails done every week, or even got on the fliest sneakers. An ugly inside makes an ugly outside. Beauty starts within! Yet you must understand you are not ugly you are beautiful you just have to get ride of the ugly ways that you carry! When you start making changes your actions show. People see the difference. They will treat you different because you treat you different. You must hold your ground and stay consistent.  And always know people are always watching and they can see how much you value you by the way you value you!